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In the morning we were woken up by his mum’s call. He answered, it was the hospital asking him to come over. he hung up and looked at me like something was wrong. “it’s the hospital, they want me to come over, mum is not doing well, the last time something like this happened was when my grandmother died. My mum has passed, I’m sure of that” he said.
I never got the chance to attend University but instead he got me a job. Fresh from High School, I was employed in Government. He told me my salary was to pay for myself at college and not to buy clothes and all those things we want to buy as girls. I did just that. I got a college and enrolled in accounting paying for myself and not a cent from dad.
How can you eat from a pot and then not want to wash its lid. Think about it. You just want what is inside and you do not care about how dirty the lid may be. Have you ever considered that some of us have liners on so the panties are just as clean.
This is a topic i had never spoken about. The rape was not even reported at my home because I was scared I would be bitten for playing with boys or even playing with the flower I was told never to touch. The shame of the story circulating in the community because the parents would tell everybody
When women were created they were entrusted with a sixth sense to be used only during trying times. This is a whole package that is placed in different places. We overthink, criticize, undress, analyse, zoom in and out of situations still trying to find the best angle.
I realized that there are some things that you can only truly know from experience. My years of counselling hadn’t prepared me for this and I don’t think anything would. Weeks and months passed and I’d look at someone’s baby on the street and imagine that my Zelwe would be that age now
We had not really spoken about pregnancy with mom until these point. she just said to me “it’s the baby but you must control yourself.” So she went on to tell me that the anger will be transferred to the child…yeah right seemingly the baby was transferring its anger to me already.
Can your heart atleast tell mine the story. How sincere and deep is your love for me? How long are we going to hold on to each other, is it forever. This would actually save us the stress of trying too hard whilst we are not sure where we are going.
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