Well written. You put me right there in the bus.

That said, I always say we, as a people, are an extension of our terrible leaders. We all can do better.

I have had this tab open since this post was put up. However, I have only just read it. Bottomline: life has happened/is happening to a lot of us. I think I began reading TNC after stumbling on it via TSC in circa…

Yeah. My boss is just a year on the other side of 40 and she’s just had her first baby. She’s been off work for almost a whole year! it was such a difficult pregnancy. And if i’m honest, it’s what brought home the…

Awww. thanks @v
I hope I am up to the task. It’s weird, I rarely get that response from anyone. No one ever gives me a vote of confidence. It’s always about the tenuousness of the situation.
Thank you…

Do you know, i remember telling myself that i wanted to be done with kids by 30. I was so naive 🙂 Life had other plans for me.
If I knew then the things that I know now, maybe things would be a little different.

@abiola it would be nice to meet someone and do things the ‘conventional’ way, and of course get a chance at living the typical ‘family dream’. if i get lucky, maybe. But i think i’ll be happy either way. And you are…

That’s one of my fears, that i’ll wake up at 40 and wish i had done it sooner. And then be afraid of having a troubled pregnancy. As for the benchmark, i gave myself 35, which is why the conversation is coming up…

Thanks @bills

Thanks @uzzy for the sentiment. I usually am optimistic, don’t know when i became so jaded. I have to believe I’ll be fine 🙂

Why so bitter !!! LMAO!

I’d say …go for it!
I have 2 friends that just turned 40 and are some 7-8 years ahead of me and i have tried to encourage them to go the IVF way. Although they’re still undecided but seriously considering it. One…

First, you like me bullying you so quit complaining.
Secondly, I had ‘mad’, not ‘crazy’ and the word for you doesn’t exist yet so enjoy the undefined zone.
Thirdly, shade all you want, dazz nor my business,…

You got my m-🤐
Hi @butterflymind !!!

Sending love your way, @everest . 💜💜💜

Well, what’s dead may never die (excerpt from The Night’s Watch Pledge”) so 😝.

Eez nor everything dat you must be a part of ma. Later, if i call you mad eez not like I’m insulting you.

You could recite every line of ‘Words…”. I just died 😭😭.
Hey @gbemileke . How ‘bout you tell your friends that we ‘coming back’! You played a small role in the dearth by withdrawing your comments but I forgive y…