7 Reasons Why Grown Women Love Ben 10s

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I  know these days I am bringing controversy over here but we need to talk about these things, right? So let me sell my soul to all you thirsty souls who will crush me with your own views on why some of us older women love younger men aka Ben 10s. Fun. They are full…

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I  know these days I am bringing controversy over here but we need to talk about these things, right? So let me sell my soul to all you thirsty souls who will crush me with your own views on why some of us older women love younger men aka Ben 10s.

  1. Fun. They are full of life. They are so much fun you forget about your stressful day at work. They make you forget even that ex-boyfriend of yours who had lots of money but failed you somehow. They bring out that little girl in you, forget about your age and that you have 10 people who are his age reporting to you in the office.
  2. They go out of their way to fulfil every fantasy you had growing up and as an adult. They can bend, turn and twerk if you know what I mean. They know that you are tired and hungry. They run your bath, prepare a starter before the main course and “dessert.” A massage is a given, to soothe your sore feet from those 6 inch heels that you wear to the office.
  3. 100% available. They run your personal business. They are available to do your grocery shopping, bring you lunch at work and call you all day to find out how you are doing. These fill up the gaps that the older men leave open. They even notice that you have changed your hairstyle, glasses or are wearing make-up.
  4. They are never intimidated by your success. As jealous as they may be if they see you chatting with someone your age, they are never intimidated by your money or success. They celebrate with you every milestone that you achieve. These will never downplay you in any kind of way. The only thing that they see in you, is a queen on her throne and the glory surrounding you. They just adore you.
  5. Friendship. They become like one of your girlfriends. You can share anything and everything with them. You can cry with them and they cry with you. They are happy when you are happy and cheer you up when you come across sad. They know your favourite color that the older man forgot and bought you those green shoes you hate so much. You can go shopping for your clothes and have them hold your bag while waiting to see if the dress shows all those curves.
  6. They pay attention to detail. They notice whenever there is a change around you, be it the house or you bought a new neck piece. Like I said, they fill in those gaps that the older age group leave open. We do not have to ask if something is the right fit, make or suits us. They just let their mouths loose with compliments.
  7.  We want to be young again. Yes I said it. We just need to see if we are still relevant in the market and if we are still attractive. We just want that assurance. The rest of it is your business, we do not care what you think.

It is a pity though that we do not have the guts to introduce them to our homes and we end up fighting because they feel we are ashamed of them. They are a good distraction and give us too much fun.

Why then shouldn’t we date them?

Image via The Trent

Responses

        1. Toni
          Well, I can’t speak for other men but I’ve often heard people say that amazing relationships are too good to be true. My relationship is an example; many thought the same thing, expected it to fail, but ended up wrong. We got married and, while not living to prove others wrong, we succeeded in showing them that we were for real.

          I found this blog: http://www.dailygossip.ng/celebrities/4-female-celebrities-who-found-love-with-younger-men/

          While it doesn’t prove they’re in love per se, it at least shows that the relationship can last, and is not always about money

          1. Ramatu
            That is good. In truth, I haven’t met many people who share your experience. I guess that is why I have held such views. I am glad to change that view. Well done.
  1. Andronicus
    Lol! Took me a while to understand who a Ben 10 is.

    Youth is seductive, I agree with you. It has this charm, this nostalgia, that carefree life that promises you can live vicariously through it. But this is when the going is good…you could easily get disgusted that that person is too childish, immature etc in some aspects. But yes, youth is seductive.

  2. Toni
    “They bring out that little girl in you, forget about your age and that you have 10 people who are his age reporting to you in the office.”

    This had me rolling, literally. The mental picture… kai

    Anyways, I can relate because I fell in love with and married and older woman. I don’t know if I was a Ben 10 to her, but I remember doing a few (ok, more than a few) things you mentioned for her. She was very sceptical about us making things work with the age difference, but today we’re glad we made the right choices.

    P.S. I have cute younger brothers who don’t mind an older lady (just in case you’re asking)… And, no, they don’t require “payment!” *sigh* why some people can’t believe when it’s love for real

  3. Nosa
    Ffs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 are you people dating 17 and 18 year olds? 😂😂😂😂 Are the “younger” guys you are supposedly dating wearing pampers? Are these “younger” guys moving around inside strollers and sucking of feeding bottles?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    These post is just a whole smelling pile of improperly cooked crap😭😭😭😭😭😭

    Hey, Miss Author, did your “Ben10” tick all these boxes? When you spied his name in the “registration book” and saw his position in the firm, did you know he was a Ben10? When y’all were frolicking and sweating and rolling and doing love nwantiti, before you found out his age, did he tick all these boxes in your list?

    *in Lord Marshall’s voice* These are the things i need to know!!!!!

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  4. U
    I see that the women are as bad/morally bankrupt as the males. Who will instruct the children that fornication/adultery/cheating is morally bad, hurts loved ones & breaks homes?

    Very silly. You missed out in your youth? Too bad, be a good example to the young. If you are so right why can’t you take them (Ben 10) home?

    It’s a sick world.

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