Tag: Dating

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Most of the time I just sit here in my corner and think about life options and everything that is happening around me. I can’t help but ask this question. Dating at times feels like a total waste of time especially if there is no direction. Fun is never enough and love is never enough…

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Imagine your friend moaning and groaning with lascivious fortitude in the next room during the night when you are struggling to make sense of the day’s lecture epistles. He has his girlfriend as roommate, and you know this is the cause of the commotion. Your own roommate is a boy that might as well be…

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Being a lady is a great thing. There are too many moments where I bless my maker for this fine sculpture. When I walk tall in town, the whistles do not stop. The compliments flow. All these things complete every diva. The day a man proposes, it’s like heaven on earth. The way we love…

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I was chatting with a friend a short while ago, and our conversation reminded me of something that my brother mentioned to me on one of those horrible trips to the market. Yes, I hate the market even though I used to tend my mother’s shop (more like stall). The noise, the smells… Urgh. Just…

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***Please note that all accounts in this piece are entirely fictional, and any resemblance to real life persons – living or dead – is entirely coincidental.***  Friend A He hasn’t called. The bastard promised he wasn’t like the rest but he hasn’t called. And I knew he would do this. Something told me not to…

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You meet a charming young man and it feels like the place to be. You are both crazy about each other and looking forward to your journey together hoping for the best. You go out of your way to make your partner feel comfortable and welcome. You stay positive in bad and good times. You…

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It had been a few months, and I knew something had changed.  I didn’t want to believe it, I couldn’t bare the thought.  I tried to explain his behaviour away, tried to think that perhaps our problems were circumstantial, and that we would soon overcome the rough patch.  But it was not to be overcome,…

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But why me? It started on the tenth of January last year. I just turned twenty seven, and my biological clock was ticking. I have never brought any man home before and trust my mum, she was beginning to worry. I even think she suspected I was a lesbian. Of course she never said it,…

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Dear ….. Erm, I don’t quite know what to call you now I’ve held this pen for quite a while now, dithering over what to write. I’ve always wanted to explain everything that happened a little better, but how do I start? You see, I have absolutely no experience with heart break considering that I…

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I  know these days I am bringing controversy over here but we need to talk about these things, right? So let me sell my soul to all you thirsty souls who will crush me with your own views on why some of us older women love younger men aka Ben 10s. Fun. They are full…

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I didn’t care initially, until you loudly ordered for the coldest bottle of Star they had in stock, to the laughter of your friends who had all ordered cocktails. I turned. The lift of your eyebrows at me confirmed you were the beer drinker.

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I am hallucinating this blue Monday, thinking about all the evil I have done in this world. I could not help but think of an awkward situation where I had gone to a funeral and my boyfriend wanted to go with me since he knew the friend I was supporting. We embarked on this journey…