Tag: Infidelity

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This one’s for those men – married, quarter-to-marry and planning to marry – that cannot imagine a life of being with just one woman, much less living it. We know you are out there, and you love to have your side-chicks. There’s not much we can do about that, apart from criticize and curse and…

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The truth about cheating is that we all want to do it, on some level, almost all the time, and we don’t cheat by deciding not to, every single day. Our minds have a really annoying way of constantly wondering whether there might be a better deal out there for us. And there are much more serious…

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“Not right now,” I said, but he persisted like I knew he would, wanting to be the saviour as always. “Then when are we going to talk about it? We need to, don’t we? We can even see a marriage counselor if you want too. I mean, I…I don’t mind, I don’t mind going.” “Not…

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Dec 28

Mr Nice Guy

The phone rang. Dammie picked up. “Hello?” “Hi baby, I’m outside”, replied the voice from the other end of the line. “Tell him you are coming out”, I whispered. She did like I said and hung up. I told her to just play along as this was going to be a great story. Dammie had…

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Nma looked at herself naked in the mirror. And the tears choked her as her eyes took each part of her body bit by bit and assessed it. Her tummy protruded with the baby inside of her and for a moment the shape looked a bit awkward as the baby moved. This caused her to…

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What happens if you are not playing the substitute game but your partner is? He/she might not even know it. Your duty as partner is to notice these signs and then try to work through the issues that might be making your partner to try to replace you with a substitute. Signs that your partner…

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Dear Chinelo, How is Canada treating you? I saw the pictures you sent through Mike, nne you are really enjoying, even little Amarachi is all grown up. I’m happy for you. I know you must have been worried about me, and why I haven’t called you since we spoke last. My dear I have being…

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It is not every Friday after an extremely busy week that I decide to remain on the island till late at night. I was with a long lost friend and such a relief it was to see her again. After the exchange of pleasantries; we sat down to chat properly and we began to talk…

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Tell them Tell them about it That you cheated And you liked it Tell her you’ve betrayed her trust That which you had to earn After fighting so hard for her love Tell her those sweet words mean little now For you said the same to me Over and over you assured me Like you…

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Unwrinkle your nose, shit is perfectly edible and might be eaten at some point. The choice of how to eat it is what’s more important you see, for though it is well known that shit can simply be eaten with one’s bare, unwashed hands, shit can also be eaten properly with a fork and knife.…

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I recently read three articles on TNC; one written in August 2015 was on why “Yoruba men are great at infidelity” and the other two articles, written more recently, seem to rest on theme: the prevalence of infidelity in Nigeria. I noticed a plethora of conjectural statements made by the authors and commentators in the…

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Jun 17

Dear Pastor

Dear pastor, Hope you’re alright? I know you’d have asked to know how we are doing, but I’d like to make myself believe you’re too busy with the problems of “the sheep”. Lagos is treating us well, the weather is fine and we are comfortable in the house YOU provided upstate. I’m very sure you’re…

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This topic is a bit of a hot potato, during market research, there were 2 camps. The first one was of the opinion that once a partner has strayed, then they should be kicked to the curb. The second camp believed that if you can get past the infidelity then it’ll make your relationship stronger,…