I remember sitting close to a lady at a social gathering and the discussion of beauty and body goals came up, and she made a statement about not liking her body. In my head, I’m saying this lady cannot be serious, I mean she was beauty and body goals. This lady was tall, black, beautiful with the perfect coca-cola shaped body and in the midst of the conversation, everyone tells her, your body is ideal and saying that this is every girl dream body. Actually, that was not the first time I was seeing this happen. I mean there are so many ideal definitions of beauty and body goals you look up to but if you ever speak to that person, you mostly find out they are not comfortable in their own skin. It is really surprising because there are a lot of girls that I regard or find as an ideal definition of beauty and body goals but speaking to them, I realize that there is always something they complain about. I mean no one is perfect but there are some people close to perfection but they do not see themselves this way and it is surprising.
Everyone cannot have all the good features but there are some features that you appreciate from the outside while the person is personally not comfortable with themselves. It happens a lot and it really surprises me. Its really hard to accept some feature you have and then you appreciate others making you feel so bad about yourself. The focus of this article is not to make anyone feel bad about not appreciating their beauty or body but to make you know that even the ideal beauty and body type you admire may not be comfortable in their own skin. The main point is being comfortable with your beauty and body type and do not overwork yourself about it or feel so bad but appreciate it and work to achieve whichever beauty or body goals you want.
We should learn to accept ourselves first and then work towards achieving these goals. Do not attempt to be like a person at the expense of your happiness. Most of these girls with the perfect features getting all the attention are still not satisfied, they always find something wrong but they will never throw it to the world, it is an inside battle they are fighting within themselves. In relation to that, do not work yourself up because everyone has their own insecurities and that should not weigh you down. Remember there is the only one you and you have one life to live and also life is so short so you really should not spend all your life hating yourself and loving others because of what you look like. Accept yourself for who you are and love yourself so much that no insecurities can bring you down and do whatever you want to do to improve on your beauty and body goals as long as it makes you feel better about yourself and above all, as long as it makes you happy.