Poll: What Would You Do If You Walked In On Your Wife Pleasing Herself?
Hey heyyy. Thank God it’s Friday. Last week we asked the ladies: Will you take a cheating pass from your husband? 60% said NO! We also asked them:Can you give your husband a cheating pass in the name of spicing up your marriage? 52% chose: The only spice anyone needs in this life is inside an Indomie pack. And when we asked the guys: Will you take a cheating pass from your wife? 50% said: There are other creative ways to announce your desire to leave Earth. When we asked the guys: Can you give your wife a cheating pass in the name of spicing up your marriage? 52% chose the option: The only spice anyone needs in this life is inside an Indomie pack. So basically, no one is giving anyone a cheating pass. The End.
Today, I’ll be taking a step back and allowing the lovely TemiNiran do her thing.
Hey guys! Your residential pervert here!
So I came across this Battabox video a couple of months ago, and while I laughed at how ridiculous some of the responses were, it reminded me of my own brief experience with the subject matter. View HERE
I was having a conversation with a particular young, educated Nigerian man and happened to mention to him that I was watching a video about vibrators, and the importance of self-pleasure for women. He responded to me by saying that if he were my man, I would never have reason to please myself. I then told him that I didn’t understand why there even had to be a choice between the two; why I couldn’t receive pleasure from my “man”, while also learning to please myself.
I realized after a little back-and-forth that for him, the use of a vibrator meant that there was something he wasn’t doing right. It in essence meant that he and said vibrator would be fierce competitors, working towards a united goal of pleasuring a very lucky (or unlucky, depending on his stroke game) woman. It was then that I decided to throw the question out.
In my opinion, pleasure is pleasure, and communication is key. If the scenario in the video below (my man walking in on me using a vibrator) occurred, unless we were already having issues relating to sex in the relationship, I wouldn’t expect that he would be offended. I also would hope that he would see vibrators not as competition, but as an instrument that can further enhance pleasure. I do however understand that not everyone is the same. So guys, how would you feel about your woman using a vibrator? If you object, why?