The internet went crazy mad when Jhene Aiko officially filed for a divorce from her 11-month old husband Dot da genius.
Hi my name is S and don’t let marriage keep you from experiencing love/a better kind of love/ love you deserve/ your soul mate.
For a couple of months prior to this official statement there had been social media chatter about the two hooking up and they (Jhene and Sean) were REALLY disgusting and disrespectful about it. They made an album together and there was CLEARLY chemistry. However the snapchat videos and pictures of them exchanging “I love yous” and making out on stage yada yada seemed a bit much, and frankly a bitch move on Jhene’s part. She didn’t even have to officially divorce Dot before hooking up with Sean but at least be low-key about it but there was nothing low-key about what was going on between her and Big Sean. I absolutely love Jhene’s music but her thought process was seriously faulty in that aspect.
At some point Jhene must have been in love with Dot, because heck! She married him but love doesn’t last forever, sometimes you may want it to but life happens and you could already be in a marriage and find out that’s not the love you want for the rest of your life.
Let’s take a second and forget all that stuff about “It’s wrong to love someone else when you are married”. Personally, I think it’s pretty lame. The way I see it, if you love someone while married to another, you have two options. You can either get off your ass and do something about it or stay and wallow in sadness.
Personally, I dont think Jhene deserves the backlash she’s received for her actions because unlike many who are unhappy in theor marriages, she got off her ass and did something about it. She didn’t want to stay in a relationship where her heart wasn’t in anymore and that’s okay. She probably doesn’t care about all of you bashing her, her mental well being is utmost to her. As all the details aren’t even clear about who did what, it’s safe to say she is in a better place now. We can all become Judge Judy and question they way she went about it but I dont think we should attack her.
I for one know how it is to be with a person who is married, I’m talking being in a loving reciprocal relationship with someone who has a spouse but that’s a story for another day. I just want to say that if someone who is married, in his/her full senses decided to be in an actual relationship outside their marriage, it’s because there is something they are lacking and need fulfilled. This may be Jhene’s case….MAY BE…
There is no need to get riled up because the truth is, we don’t know the entire story, and Jhene isn’t right or wrong. Jhene did what she had to do for her own good.
Also, there is absolutely no assurance that she and Big Sean will last or that he’s her true love. As far as I’m concerned, he cannot be her true real love because this is the same guy who broke up with a 21-year old and wrote an entire diss song to the effect.
Couples break and up and find ‘love’ elsewhere in no time, such is life.