Last week, we asked: What geo-political zone does that person that messed you up relationship-wise belong? 33% of the ladies chose South West and 20% of the guys chose South East thought 34% of them said they are kryptonite to relationship demons. ***** Hey guys!!! Cheers to the freaking weekend. The year is moving so fast…
Last week, we asked: What geo-political zone does that person that messed you up relationship-wise belong? 33% of the ladies chose South West and 20% of the guys chose South East thought 34% of them said they are kryptonite to relationship demons.
Hey guys!!! Cheers to the freaking weekend. The year is moving so fast and I cannot believe we are already in the 10th month. Was it not just yesterday we were screaming happy New Year like banshees and making false New Year resolutions? I hope yall are achieving all the goals you set for this year or coming close to achieving it. Anyway, good luck with that.
Let us move on, shall we?
Can you ever be friends with your ex especially if you are the one nursing a broken heart? I find it really amusing how the ‘breaker’ is quick to say ‘let’s be friends’ without batting an eyelid. It makes me wonder how this human, who wasn’t dropped from the sky, or perhaps was, opened his/her mouth to vomit such trash? You meet an amazing person, you guys connect on so many levels, and just as you are settling into the land of day dreams, planning your wedding and what not, the bomb is dropped. It is bad enough that this person breaks your heart, destroys your soul and crushes any dream of a future with a white picket fence; s/he decides to add the final nail to the coffin by asking you to be friends with them almost as easy as how the silly ‘have you eaten/what did you eat’ question was asked weeks before.
How exactly does this ex befriending thing work? There is too much baggage, too many hurt feelings
and the fact that this person saw you naked many times often cloud the path to friendship.You need time to heal. I bet a lot of people will say it is the matured thing to do. I mean, for you to have cared deeply for someone enough to have a long term relationship with, how would you not want this person to be a part of your life anymore simply because the relationship didn’t work? I call bullshit because if you are the one at the receiving end, there is no way you will be able to set all the bad feelings that will arise from the failed relationship and transcend the pettiness of the break up in favor of friendship. Even if you are the heart breaker, why would you want to be friends with someone whose heart you just broke? How do you trust this person not to steal a strand of your hair and submit it to his/her village people to deal with you properly? How do you believe that the person has no ill feelings towards you?
To me, unless BOTH of you are over the relationship, being friends is very tricky and rather than salvage any form of camaraderie between the two of you, it increases the bad feelings.
But that’s my opinion, what is yours?
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