Tag: relationship

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Sep 19

Sacrifice

There she is sobbing in her sleep, wearing my pyjamas shirt on top of her dress, her white flowing dress, the one she bought from Vera Wang and the first thought in my head is “I’m never getting rid of that couch”.

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We do not love for long periods. Our uncertainty is not sure to us. We are finding reasons not to stay. One minute we are burning for you, the next we are burning, but for freedom, and when we leave we do not want you thinking you are insufficient, that you do not fill us. Because baby, you do and that’s the thing that scares us.

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Sep 16

Due Date

Look babe, if you guys are serious about enjoying each other before kids come – and for the record I think it’s a great idea. Dave and I are doing great, and we love Jr. and this one coming with all our hearts, but sometimes, just sometimes…

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It’s okay to grieve. Cry if you want to. Scream into your pillow, but do this without letting it affect the person you really are. And then go on to mentally pick out all the good in the relationship that lured you there in the first place, stuff you actually enjoyed and would love to have again.

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Between age 25 and 30, society decides women are no longer to be sheltered and should immediately find men and marry them. To miss this time window is to be ready for a life of singleness. But is there any truth to this?

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Human sexuality has always been an interesting part of our existence. In recent times, it has become a norm to hear young Nigerian men and women declare their sexuality as sapiosexual—attracted to or sexually aroused by intelligence and its use. When critically analysed, however, are we really sapiosexual? According to a friend, most Nigerian men aren’t…

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Why don’t men take no for an answer? Its almost as though a woman relinquishes all her personal rights in the presence of a man whom she considers a friend or a potential lover.

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As I sat down, I tried to think. Should I tell them the truth or should I say something more interesting and juicy happened? I figured the phone conversation was juicy enough, but then I wasn’t supposed to have gone to his apartment

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I have officially dated three men in my entire life: two of them for less than 6 months, but one of them made it to two and a half years the first time and one and a half years the second try. I met my ex in college. I had randomly heard of him, because…

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Editor’s note: Apologies for the break in transmission. Body Count 101 will be back on your screens next week. However, in the same vein, here’s another take on no longer beating around the bush (pun? yes? no?) and embracing the erotic. S would be proud.  ___ Why is it wrong for a man to want only…

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Nigerian women deserve a gold medal (or a medal higher than gold) for their outstanding ability to fake an orgasm, or act benighted when it comes to sex. If a proper survey is carried out, I won’t be surprised if more than half of sexually active Nigerian women admit to never experiencing orgasm. Yeah, yeah…

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I have had quite a series of sexual adventures in my young life and I’ve been sharing some of my lessons with you guys. If you missed the first two posts, click here and here. All caught up with the series? Let’s get into today’s lesson. I demand a high level of sexual entertainment from anyone…