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Human sexuality has always been an interesting part of our existence. In recent times, it has become a norm to hear young Nigerian men and women declare their sexuality as sapiosexual—attracted to or sexually aroused by intelligence and its use. When critically analysed, however, are we really sapiosexual? According to a friend, most Nigerian men aren’t…

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Why don’t men take no for an answer? Its almost as though a woman relinquishes all her personal rights in the presence of a man whom she considers a friend or a potential lover.

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As I sat down, I tried to think. Should I tell them the truth or should I say something more interesting and juicy happened? I figured the phone conversation was juicy enough, but then I wasn’t supposed to have gone to his apartment

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I have officially dated three men in my entire life: two of them for less than 6 months, but one of them made it to two and a half years the first time and one and a half years the second try. I met my ex in college. I had randomly heard of him, because…

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Editor’s note: Apologies for the break in transmission. Body Count 101 will be back on your screens next week. However, in the same vein, here’s another take on no longer beating around the bush (pun? yes? no?) and embracing the erotic. S would be proud.  ___ Why is it wrong for a man to want only…

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Nigerian women deserve a gold medal (or a medal higher than gold) for their outstanding ability to fake an orgasm, or act benighted when it comes to sex. If a proper survey is carried out, I won’t be surprised if more than half of sexually active Nigerian women admit to never experiencing orgasm. Yeah, yeah…

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I have had quite a series of sexual adventures in my young life and I’ve been sharing some of my lessons with you guys. If you missed the first two posts, click here and here. All caught up with the series? Let’s get into today’s lesson. I demand a high level of sexual entertainment from anyone…

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He came. We met. It ended. You say you love someone. You want to be with them. Establish a long lasting relationship. You guys have been talking for some time and now you want to meet. And you show up half-drunk. To say I was disappointed would be me making an understatement. Who does that?…

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I was having a very mushy, loving, soaking-with-cheese conversation with my boyfriend one morning; the kind where we’re both being completely open about how we feel, our fears and worries, our insecurities e.t.c. We talked fondly about how we met and about when we each realized that we were in love with the other and…

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Disclaimer: Please I accept no responsibility for any resemblance to anyone and I do NOT imply that ALL single ladies tell these lies. These are just my observations from my everyday life… Enjoy!!! I was in a conversation  with a friend  recently  when these thoughts came to my head. I won’t say she was lying but…

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All my life I’ve been a tomboy, being tall n lanky as a teenager didn’t make It any easier for me. I went through University with only jeans, shirts and t-shirts and that was perfectly fine by me, not like I cared what anyone felt. I was comfortable with my male friends as they understood…

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Dear Lord, It’s your daughter. I’m here again, asking for the same thing my mother asks for every night – a husband. Not for herself o. For me. She can’t be greedy. She already has my father. But today, I’m not asking that he be rich, or handsome, though those would be nice additions, especially…