Tag: relationship

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So I eventually watched the #hurtbae video (yes, I was living under a work when it all happened, but better late than never) and I must have watched it five times back to back because in those few minutes, those two people talked about a lifetime of hurt, of miscommunication, of doubt, of a lack…

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Most of the time I just sit here in my corner and think about life options and everything that is happening around me. I can’t help but ask this question. Dating at times feels like a total waste of time especially if there is no direction. Fun is never enough and love is never enough…

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Love was a mere fantasy until she came along.  Just like you, she was a fresher. It all started from a simple “hello” in class. Soon mobile numbers were exchanged, which lead to a journey of incessant chats and calls. You were in love, and your lover was your all. The feeling couldn’t have been…

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This one’s for those men – married, quarter-to-marry and planning to marry – that cannot imagine a life of being with just one woman, much less living it. We know you are out there, and you love to have your side-chicks. There’s not much we can do about that, apart from criticize and curse and…

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The truth about cheating is that we all want to do it, on some level, almost all the time, and we don’t cheat by deciding not to, every single day. Our minds have a really annoying way of constantly wondering whether there might be a better deal out there for us. And there are much more serious…

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I snooped through my male friend’s phone one day and I laughed when I saw his apps. You don’t want to know what the app is ‘how to woo a girl’. Jeez! I will never understand women. Too complex, too twisted, too picky, too tricky, sometimes confused and it’s so funny I’m a member of…

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Imagine your friend moaning and groaning with lascivious fortitude in the next room during the night when you are struggling to make sense of the day’s lecture epistles. He has his girlfriend as roommate, and you know this is the cause of the commotion. Your own roommate is a boy that might as well be…

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“It’s all fun and games until someone gets hurt.” – Unknown I was wide awake, but I needed to get back to bed. I needed to sleep but I couldn’t. In fact, I didn’t want to. So I kept turning in my bed which now seemed to be dragging me out of it. It used…

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You might know who I’m talking about. She believes that a relationship without constant drama isn’t spicy enough. Nothing boosts her blood level like keeping her man on his toes, and not in a good way. She loves to have him grovelling before her, wondering what he has done to her this time. She gets into…

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Shoot the messenger. But in this case, she’s bullet-proof. I’ve heard so much talk about why it’s not right or not ideal to move in with someone and be sleeping with them, cooking and eating with them, playing ‘house’ with them and basically doing ‘marital’ stuff with them before getting married. Or instead of getting…

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Being a lady is a great thing. There are too many moments where I bless my maker for this fine sculpture. When I walk tall in town, the whistles do not stop. The compliments flow. All these things complete every diva. The day a man proposes, it’s like heaven on earth. The way we love…

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I remember the first time he kissed me on my forehead; I couldn’t wait to tell my friends about it and call him ‘my perfect man’. I think it was the third time we were seeing and after talking to each other about everything for three months, one would think this would excite me but…

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Dec 8

The Call

“Ok. I’m ready for you. You can come over now.” Those words felt like I’d been told that I’d just won the lottery. I put on my jeans, sprayed some cologne and headed out. While locking my door, I did a quick mental run through. Wallet, check. Phones, check. Bottle of wine, check. Condoms, definitely.…