Tag: Relationships

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When people think of one-sided love, they often consider it from the perspective of the person giving unrequited love. They think of a person who loves another so deeply, but doesn’t receive this. This person is often thought of as the victim and the other as the villain. I, too, used to have such thoughts, until…

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Apparently, 31% of guys didn’t know they owe their relationships to barbers. Did they think they could keep their girlfriends without that ritzy fade or pristine hairline? In the stone-age, cavemen had to steal their wives. It wasn’t until barbers were born that men learned to woo. The art of culture and seduction can be found in a well-trimmed beard

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We had discussed him before, when we just met, your now estranged business partner and friend of about ten years. Let me confess here that when you told me of your history with him and the intention to be all professional and keep it business like, I saw a problem. For me, it wasn’t about Okafor’s law.

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In an ideal world, the need to abort a baby would not exist, but the world is far from ideal and there are many reasons women are not ready to carry pregnancies to term. In spite of the illegality of the act in Nigeria, women still undergo abortions, many of them unsafe. Why is the abortion and the discussion of it taboo in Nigeria?

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I went for a wedding with some friends a fortnight ago where I met this pretty chic. We got talking; I must admit the conversation wasn’t as smooth as I had hoped but I was lucky to cart away with her phone number and social media handles at the end of the day. On our way back…

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In most cases where people go after closure, it’s when they feel they’ve been dealt the weaker hand in a relationship. And this has nothing to do with whoever ended a relationship – it’s just about power.

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Some time ago, I ran into my Ex, Chinelo and her bestie, Nkeoma at the movies. I had gone to watch Total Recall, the new blockbuster starring the multi-talented Colin Farrell but I was told it was yet to hit the cinema so I had to settle for ‘Think like a Man’ for the umpteenth…

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Yes, we all love to talk about love, Facebook, Twitter, online forums et al we all seem to get hooked on the relationship sagas and all it’s juicy details. We all want to know who’s dating who, their secret crushes, ex’s and that’s kept the social networking binge rolling with no stones to stop it.…

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(Especially in your early 20s…) Disclaimer: This is a THEORY I have, which I just recently formulated, so take what you want from it… or not. So I imagine you guys already know that I’m a love/relationship junkie, and one of my favorite things to do is wonder and “research” about related issues and topics…

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“Dele…Dele…Oladele?” Supo called. The brows on his forehead furrowed as he looked at her with exasperation. “Yes?” Oladele jerked out of her reverie. She hadn’t realized she had been staring into space for the past five minutes. Supo sighed. He held her hand tighter. Dele winced at the pain of his grip; he had been…

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Prayer is not a bad thing at all. Even the Bible affirms that in everything we should give thanks, bad or good. Feeling ashamed that your partner has started doing bad things which may endanger you and the entire family will not help the situation but speaking will. Yes, you have prayed about it for…

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I was sitting in the house the other day thinking of a good friend of mine who sent her husband to the market to buy a cabbage on a Saturday afternoon. The thing that made me laugh was that the husband left and came back the next morning with the cabbage. You might wonder what…