Tag: Relationships

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I went for a wedding with some friends a fortnight ago where I met this pretty chic. We got talking; I must admit the conversation wasn’t as smooth as I had hoped but I was lucky to cart away with her phone number and social media handles at the end of the day. On our way back…

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In most cases where people go after closure, it’s when they feel they’ve been dealt the weaker hand in a relationship. And this has nothing to do with whoever ended a relationship – it’s just about power.

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Some time ago, I ran into my Ex, Chinelo and her bestie, Nkeoma at the movies. I had gone to watch Total Recall, the new blockbuster starring the multi-talented Colin Farrell but I was told it was yet to hit the cinema so I had to settle for ‘Think like a Man’ for the umpteenth…

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Yes, we all love to talk about love, Facebook, Twitter, online forums et al we all seem to get hooked on the relationship sagas and all it’s juicy details. We all want to know who’s dating who, their secret crushes, ex’s and that’s kept the social networking binge rolling with no stones to stop it.…

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(Especially in your early 20s…) Disclaimer: This is a THEORY I have, which I just recently formulated, so take what you want from it… or not. So I imagine you guys already know that I’m a love/relationship junkie, and one of my favorite things to do is wonder and “research” about related issues and topics…

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“Dele…Dele…Oladele?” Supo called. The brows on his forehead furrowed as he looked at her with exasperation. “Yes?” Oladele jerked out of her reverie. She hadn’t realized she had been staring into space for the past five minutes. Supo sighed. He held her hand tighter. Dele winced at the pain of his grip; he had been…

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Prayer is not a bad thing at all. Even the Bible affirms that in everything we should give thanks, bad or good. Feeling ashamed that your partner has started doing bad things which may endanger you and the entire family will not help the situation but speaking will. Yes, you have prayed about it for…

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I was sitting in the house the other day thinking of a good friend of mine who sent her husband to the market to buy a cabbage on a Saturday afternoon. The thing that made me laugh was that the husband left and came back the next morning with the cabbage. You might wonder what…

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So, “sex without feelings” is this new skill that all the cool kids have acquired. We used to think it was impossible but with the right tactics and soft skills, it can actually be achieved. I threw the issue to a couple of my friends and my experts are divided in their thoughts. Some say,…

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Jan 14

I Cheated

“Let us begin to deal with people in accordance to their fuck up and not on how much good we have ascribed to them on the basis of their gender alone”. I wrote this in my notes a while ago and it resonated with me. As unusual as the quote above may seem, I’m basically…

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I was chatting with a friend a short while ago, and our conversation reminded me of something that my brother mentioned to me on one of those horrible trips to the market. Yes, I hate the market even though I used to tend my mother’s shop (more like stall). The noise, the smells… Urgh. Just…

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I was staring at my screen for the umpteenth time in over 21 days, desperately trying to overcome the block that held me in its vice tighter than a woman in labour grips the hand holding her so I went on Twitter to tweet pictures of food I have/would cook see if I would stumble…

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{DISCLAIMER: This post is aimed at the men but women would might be able to learn a thing a two to pass across. No knowledge is wasted, right?} The need to remind people about orgasms is always at the tip of my tongue. I recently had a conversation with a friend who is almost thirty-two,…